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First-Week Checklist for New Owners

First-Week Checklist for New Owners

The box is at your door, your heart rate is up, and you're about to meet her for the first time. Congratulations β€” genuinely. The first week sets the tone for years together, and the owners who get it right do a handful of small things in the right order. This is your complete day-by-day: from box cutter to, well, everything after.

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Nova on night one. The checklist survived until about here.

Day 1: the unboxing (don't rush this part)

  1. Move the box to the bedroom before opening. A packed doll is heavier and more awkward than the same doll in your arms β€” a 158cm girl means a 30–40kg box.
  2. Open on the floor, on a blanket. Cut tape shallow β€” she's right under the lid in her foam bed.
  3. Inventory first, lift second. Find the accessory kit (wig, inserts if ordered, comb, any tools) and set it aside.
  4. Lift her out properly: one arm under her shoulders, one under her hips β€” like carrying a bride, not a rolled carpet. Never pull her up by an arm, leg or head.
  5. Keep the box. Flatten it if space is tight β€” it's her best long-term storage and your only safe shipping container if ever needed.

Unboxing a new doll safely on a soft blanket

Day 1, continued: her first bath

Factory dolls arrive with manufacturing residue and shipping dust β€” give her a full welcome wash before anything else (the complete routine is in our bathing guide): lukewarm water, mild soap, no submerging the head, dry thoroughly, then her first coat of renewal powder (powder guide). A faint factory scent is normal and fades within days β€” the wash plus powder handles most of it (smell guide if it lingers).

Day 2: gear up

Your starter kit, assembled from any drugstore + our accessories advice (full list):

  • Water-based lube β€” the only kind that ever touches her (why)
  • Mild unscented soap + soft sponge
  • Cornstarch or renewal powder + a big puff
  • Microfiber towels (hers, not the household's)
  • Wide-tooth comb + detangling spray for the wig
  • Optional but recommended: USB heating rod, absorbent drying sticks, silica gel sachets

New owner starter kit flat-lay

Day 2–3: first time together

You waited, you prepped β€” enjoy. A few first-timer notes that make it better for both of you:

  • Warm her up first β€” 15 minutes with a heating rod or an electric blanket on low transforms the experience (heating guide).
  • Lube generously. She doesn't produce her own β€” that's your job, and more is more.
  • Move her joints gently to position her β€” new skeletons are deliberately firm and loosen into their natural range over the first weeks (positioning guide). Never force past resistance.
  • Afterward: the golden rule. Clean her intimate areas the same day, every time. Five minutes. Non-negotiable. She'll stay fresh for years because of exactly this habit.

Day 4–7: build the routines

  • Find her home: out of direct sunlight, away from radiators, either a display spot with a blanket or proper storage (storage guide).
  • Dress rehearsal: wash new dark clothing before it touches her, or stick to light colors β€” dye transfer is real and stubborn (dye guide).
  • First full-body wash + powder at the end of week one, and you've officially completed the maintenance cycle you'll repeat every 2–3 weeks.
⚠️ The five first-week mistakes we see most: β‘  lifting her by a limb out of the box β‘‘ skipping the arrival wash β‘’ oil-based lube "just this once" β‘£ leaving her posed against a hot radiator to "warm up" β‘€ dressing her straight into that gorgeous unwashed black lingerie. Every one is avoidable, and now you know.

FAQ

Her joints feel stiff β€” is she defective?

Brand-new skeletons ship deliberately tight so she holds poses; they ease into a natural range within a few weeks of gentle use. Persistent grinding or a joint that won't hold at all β€” message us.

There's a small mark/seam line on her skin out of the box?

Fine seam lines from molding are normal and fade into invisibility once powdered. Actual damage in transit is rare and covered β€” photo it and contact us within 48 hours.

How discreet is the delivery, really?

Plain brown box, no brand, no product names, generic sender. The courier knows less than your neighbor's cat.

What if I ordered the removable insert?

It ships in the accessory kit β€” wash it before first use and see the insert guide for the 3-minute cleaning routine that makes removable the easy-mode choice.

πŸ’‹ Still choosing your first girl? Browse the ToyFather collection β€” every doll factory-direct, real photos, US warehouse shipping and secure checkout. Week one starts whenever you're ready.
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